a few things I learnt about love last night

1.when a man meets a woman,he will initially put his best foot forward,its called wooing her-after he gets her he will relax-it doesn't mean he loves you less-its just that he has got his prize
2.comparison will kill your relationship-just because someone gets flowers every other day--and is constantly called babe and love in public doesn't mean behind closed doors the same applies-if all you ever look forward to is paid bills and no debt-be grateful and thank God for your 80 percent-you have no idea how much debt those flowers maybe be creating
3.every individual has his/her strengths and weaknesses-appreciate your partners' strengths and work towards embracing their flaws and helping them without being overly critical-after all you have your own little flaws that may make your partner's pale in comparison to your own
4.love is a lot of work-nothing valuable ever comes without effort-sometimes you have to give more than you can get-so when you jump in the ship-be prepared or else you will be disappointed
5.disagreement and correction should never be viewed as rejection of the self-people who care about you will try to bring the best out of you,receive advice with an open mind-
6.the past remains in the past-recollecting past hurts never gets anyone anywhere
7.giving up on someone for a seemingly perfect individual is foolish-that individual might not have the same flaws you are running from--but they will have flaws-problem solving skills will still need to be applied
8.wise people know what they have before they lose it-pride has no place in a room of love-sometimes you need to humble yourself for the faults of another-be the bigger person even when it doesn't make sense
9.being with the same person gets boring sometimes-but be committed to making your relationship exciting and learn to enjoy the routine as well...looking for others out there to make you feel alive might eventually leave you dead
10.love is a learning process,it  is a give and take-a flame that can warm you up,or burn you out-how you handle it matters