No viagra fixes please!

There are days when my life feels like its been punched  right in the  the face with a full inbox of  spam,reading- quick fix to your problems -i should trust a bottle version solution that knows zilch about my identity to be a quick fix to my insecurities,i email them back,when you figure out i am a woman,please send in that viagra fix, gender suited to my needs.so the next time i tell you,i worry about my performance,offer an open ear,and a mind on a  clean slate,when my bones bow ,to the pressures of this world,where i am constantly  told,  most times  problems can be fixed , by dealing with the superficial,i want you to know that the ooze from a closed wound always runs deep,if you take time to look through a dark window,there is a chance if you look long enough you will find there is so much that can be fixed by taking time to clean up messes that built up over time.so when you are done taking remember givers always gain more.tell me,i am not alone,there are 7-654-321 others aching,trying to live up to the shaking values of a society,tell me every bruise needs one closed fist,every bruise needs one open flying hand,every bruise needs one kicking foot,so if you will,stop this aching,fill my spam with hope,fill my spam with kindness,fill my spam and let the echo of your goodness resonate with my identity,let my bones bow down out of respect for a nation that deletes its children's insecurities,validates the potency of what they can achieve,if only they take time to look deep inside,to fix for good, the very insecurities that take away so much .tell me,what would it take from you, to give this little, to gain that  much